How to get both him and her in the mood.
It is argued by many that ambience plays just as big a part
in a love making experience as any other aspect of sex and yet it is
often completely overlooked.
The key to creating the right atmosphere is to think about the five
senses and try to create an atmosphere that appeals to all of them.
Beginning with touch, it is important to make sure that the
environment in which you are making love is as aesthetically pleasing as
possible. Think about the basics such as clean, crisp bed linen through
to exotic tactile treats like feathers or ice cubes. Sight could be stimulated by anything from a surprise of sexy
underwear to the soft, seductive candlelight. And those candles could
also appeal to your partner's sense of smell, especially if you try
burning some scented candles.
"Cover the basics: clean, crisp bed linen and try exotic tactile treats like feathers or ice cubes."
If candles aren't your thing then try flowers instead; they're more subtle but they will help make any room smell nice.
On to taste — and everyone knows that certain foods like oysters are
supposed to have "magical" aphrodisiacal qualities. But if your partner
would rather stick to a plainer menu, so be it.
The final sense is hearing and the obvious way to appeal to this
sense is through music. Everyone will have their own seductive
soundtrack, but subtle background "mood music" is probably your best
bet.
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