Why is sex painful:
Sex can be painful for some, especially the first
time you do it. But sex isn't a painful act on the whole. It's supposed
to give you pleasure. Some people experience anxiety, nervousness and tension during sex.
This tightens the muscles of the vagina, making penetration difficult.
This is what causes pain," says gynecologist Dr Srishti Jain. Stop worrying about sex and it will automatically be pleasurable and not cause pain.
Am I a lesbian:
Many heterosexual women have dreams about doing it
with other women. This doesn't have to mean they're gay or bisexual. You
may realize your sexual preference by who you think of when you
masturbate. But this isn't a sure shot method, the fact remains that
many women have fantasies that involve other women.
"If you have repeated dreams and sexual feelings towards a person of
the same sex, which are affecting your actual sex life, you should
seriously consider the possibility of being homosexual," says Jain.
I never have an orgasm:
"Forty-five per cent of women don't have an
orgasm during intercourse," says Jain. It's got nothing to do with you.
It could mean you aren't getting good action.
Try new positions and see what you enjoy best. It's just a matter of
trial and error. Simply having your clitoris stroked the right way can
give you an orgasm.
First Date Sex - Slut:
There's no hard and fast rule about which date
you should have sex on. It completely depends on the two people
involved and how the date went.
If you are comfortable with the guys and don't see any reason to hold
off having fun in the bedroom, go right ahead. Just be prepared for
things to go either way the next morning. Make sure you're using
protection so that the chances of STDs and pregnancy are ruled out.
Love or lust:
The fact that you are asking this question means you
have trouble separating sex and love. Our take is that love doesn't have
to come into the picture for you to have good sex. No-strings-attached
sex is just as pleasurable.
Make sure you are honest with each other about what you are looking for. Remember to use adequate protection.
Jain says pregnancy and sexually-transmitted diseases should be the
biggest worry in your head. "Make sure you learn about these
consequences. It's better to be safe than sorry," she says.
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